9 Facts About Dating Japanese Girls – TIPS FOR GUYS

Hey guys! Welcome back to Yaeko Smiles! today, I have two friends as my guests Cynthia from California and Hong Kong International background

Ami (yummy) from Japan And I'm Yaeko Yayyyy today, we're gonna talk about Cynthia: Except I'm not Japanese haha Today I found this article "9 facts about dating Japanese women" on the internet They introduce 9 facts about dating Japanese girls Now, we're gonna discuss whether or not these facts are true and also I'm gonna ask Cynthia what she thinks about these facts yayyyy Ami: No I don't But I sometimes say what I really think

Yaeko: Yea Sometimes Cynthia: Usually you guys are pretty reserved But Ummm you know We want guys to understand or feel what we really mean But we won't directly say what we really mean We want you to get the message from us without actually saying it

Yaeko: What about Western girls? Ami: How about Chinese? (American) Cynthia: Chinese? Ami: California California Girls! So just from my personal stance, I'm much more forward like, I don't really like to play games, like mind games So I just way what's on my mind or what I feel Cynthia: I've never met anybody in a bar Ami: Me neither

I feel like that applies to any country even like here Vancouver Cynthia: I think ya it is true Ami & Yaeko: Not healthy I mean it's not impossible It's just says it's difficult

Oh yeah It is difficult It's difficult haha So, when you say "no thanks" or when you are being reserved that just means like you're just shy Yaeko: just shy Cynthia: Right? Yaeko: Just like Yaeko: like umm

I don't really mean "no thanks" but I'll be hesitant because if I say "I wanna go/do, the guy might think that I'm interested in him Do you agree? Cynthia: like for me when I say "no thanks" I really mean "no thanks" I'm just like "I'm not interested in you like don't go wasting like our time like your money, and all that hahahaha Wait so, If you actually really said "no thanks" would you actually

Yaeko: We don't say "no thanks" directly we just say "oh if guys ask me like "oh do you wanna hang out with me?" if I don't wanna hang out with him, I just say "oh I'm sorry This week I'm so busy I can't" Ami: Yea

Cynthia: But you actually want to??? Yaeko: No!! I don't want to (hang out) but I don't wanna say "no" Because like Cynthia: You wanna be polite

No but I'm saying the case of like you actually like the guy, and the guy actually asks you out on a date, but you're like kinda shy So, you're like "Oh no thanks" but do you actually want him to like I don't really know! Yaeko: If I like the guy, and he asks me out on a date, I won't say "no thanks" (I will say "yes") But maybe I won't text him and call him

Ami: Please understand (guys)!!!!! Yaeko: Yeah, I want you to know that I want to call/text you, but I don't wanna be the one calling you Cynthia: I do think people do date (South Asian Men) like just for the person, who they are Yaeko: Especially university students I mean exchange students (studying in Japan) from other countries and a local student, or vice versa Ami: Hmm

South Asia guys So, specifically a foreigner (non-Japanese) or a specific race It's kinda like Yellow Fever but the exact opposite yea but in this case it's like the opposite So like Asians (Japanese Women) only dating foreigners (non-Japanese guys), yeah like white guys Yes

I think that's kinda true in general Yaeko: But like I think Is it true though? I feel like this can't just be for a Japanese girl in general like because it's exactly same for guys

like why are you showing me excessive interest? like do you want something more form me? like do you is he feeling like entitled or something? Yaeko: Yeah, entitled Cynthia: I don't know I think this is kind of a strange point to bring up Cynthia: So, like you just go along with anything you don't really have your opinion

you don't say it or like you don't make decisions just kind of go with the flow you agree to things Ami: I think I'm this kind of girl

Yaeko: Yeah, you seem like this kind of girl Ami: I don't state my opinions much after I start dating somebody Yaeko: But I guess we want our boyfriends to lead us I think we are afraid of our boyfriends thinking that we are selfish if we state our opinions too much Cynthia: You think you might be selfish or self-centered Yaeko: I think this might be one of the reasons why Japanese girls are popular

because we are like "I will follow you" Cynthia: I think It's a bad way of saying (the article) that Japanese women, maybe just or East Asian women are obedient

Yaeko: Ya ya ya ya Cynthia: Like they won't to say "no" to you Ami: In the past, I leaned about stereotypes of Japanese women that American people have They have the stereotype that Japanese women are obedient Cynthia: Yeah They won't say anything back to you Yaeko: We are perceived as women who would be like "I'm gonna follow you and obey you"

Cynthia: So, in this case, the green card is like American citizenship? Yaeko: Yeah It's like permanent residence Yaeko: Is it true???? Ami: I don't know Yaeko: Do I want Green Card? I don't really care haha Ami: Me neither Cynthia: Yes It is totally possible

Yaeko: Umm but I've heard many people say that inter-racial married couples get divorced easily Divorce rate is higher Cynthia: Eh? Yaeko: Yeah Inter-racial marriages between Japanese and non-Japanese Ami: I didn't know that

I think it's because of the difference in language, culture, etc But I think it is possible Yea

i mean, it is not impossible Cynthia: Yeah It is possible, but there is like just there are more problems Yaeko: we need effort Cynthia: need more effort

It's very difficult BUT it is possible Yaeko: I believe it's possible! we have to manage a good balance of give-and-take, we have to recognize what one should accept and say their opinion Do you know "Rachel and Jun" ? YouTubers Cynthia: I watch them quite often Yaeko: Yeah they look so cute Cynthia: They are really cute, and they seem to do pretty well But i think also because Rachel and Jun both know English and Japanese

Yaeko: Oh Yeah That's an important thing Cynthia: Yeah But it is definitely possible Just takes more effort

A lot of more effort And a lot of more patience Yaeko: Especially for Japanese girls They don't know what they want Sorry! Cynthia: Is this because like you don't Yaeko: We don't normally Cynthia: Like you don't ask yourself? You don't reflect? And you don't think about it? or is it? Yaeko: No, no just like we don't have the culture of saying directly like "I want this" We are just like polite

We just wanna be polite I think people don't say what they want because if they do, people might think they are not polite and selfish anyway! I want you guys who are interested in Japanese women to know Japanese women are a little bit difficult to deal with But it's possible to date with Japanese girls It just like need more effort need to give more attention, need to be more patient, need to give them love <3

and EFFORT Cynthia: Would one of your tips be to ask them directly???? Yaeko: UmmmYeah Cynthia: So yeah just continue to be direct try your best to just understand that their culture in general kinda teach us be more reserved and not really speak their minds So, I just need to have to dig a little deeper try harder Ami: It is important to be honest with your feelings

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